Do they ever know what they really want? They say they want something specific but sometimes act like the want everything. Trusting them for me is a trick. They're never ready when you want to and when they finally ready they upset that you have decided to safeguard yourself. They have something good in their life, they play around with it, it's only when the good leaves they seem to figure it out. Or they have something good but still want to play! I hope they figure it out soon. Some of them may miss out on the best things that may happen to them.